WE ARE THE UNCERTAIN GENERATION THAT DOESN’T KNOW WHAT IT’S DOING. THE DIFFERENCE IS THAT WE ADMIT IT.
- Valentina Bonin

- 5 days ago
- 2 min read
We grew up inside the idea that adulthood meant control, of work, emotions, direction. We were told stability would arrive like a reward, a milestone earned through discipline. Then life actually happened, and we discovered the truth everyone hides: no one, not even the confident ones, has any idea what they’re doing.
Our generation lives on the edge.Not by choice, but by survival.We don’t have manuals, clear paths, or the time to figure out if we’re heading the right way. Every step is a gamble. Every mistake, a necessary chapter. And every uncertainty becomes a new way to stay upright.
We were raised believing competence was identity — that “knowing what to do” defined your worth. But not us.We learned to inhabit imprecision, doubt, fear. We know that no life is built in a single attempt. Falling doesn’t mean failing: it means changing shape on the way down.

We build ourselves while we break, and that’s exactly the point.We’re not a lost generation. We’re not confused or inconsistent. We’re a generation under constant construction. Every postponed decision, every rerouted plan, every time we say “I don’t know” becomes a brick in the structure of who we’re becoming.
The fragile truth of our uncertain generation
The truth is we’re not afraid of not having answers.We’re afraid of the wrong answers forced on us.That’s why our future isn’t a straight road: it’s an emotional geography of traces, detours, unfinished lines that may one day make sense.
We live in the temporary, and somehow we turn it into strength.We are the ones who change jobs, cities, creative identities; the ones who reinvent ourselves when life refuses to slow down; the ones who learn to breathe under pressure because no one prepared us for the weight of our twenties, thirties, forties.
Maybe the future isn’t something we reach.Maybe the future begins the moment we stop pretending we already know who we’re supposed to be.
No one knows what they’re doing.We’re just the ones who say it out loud.And maybe that’s where things truly begin.



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